Obedience is put upon us since we are born. Growing up, we listen to our parents about choices. At school, we listen to our teachers about knowledge.
We obey when it comes to how to dress; what to create; how should we feel about emotions, sexuality and intimacy. Obedience is an expectation from the society that isn’t our decision.
To make your own decisions and not ask anyone how to feel means being true to yourself. The only thing we should obey is the kindness of our hearts and confidence we’re capable of.